Violence and Crime
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One of the most talked about occurrences in our present-day society is the frequency of violent crimes; and it leaves one to wonder what is or are the underlying reasons for such acts. Poverty and mental health seem to be the most talked about factors responsible for these types of behaviors, and as such are observable big enablers for the continuance. However, when the reason for a particular human behavior is placed externally it is very easy for individuals not to be held responsible or accountable for their behaviors, and then the behavior(s) is more likely to be repeated.
It is easy to buy into general opinions and views brandished about in public arenas, whether that be the media, among social revelers, or those with psychological theories. Let’s question if societal messaging plays a role in the violence and crime occurring currently? The frequent messaging that life is so difficult and young people can’t achieve the goals of getting a decent job, buying a house (this is a big one), can’t fund their own education, and all the other things that are unachievable because of difficult times – the poor economy, inflation, access to higher wages, mental health deterioration, and you know the rest of the messaging. Messaging that you can be anything you want to be, have whatever you want and desire, or be like everyone else leads to false and often unrealistic hopes, and lacks aspiration. Such messaging fosters envy, jealousy, and entitlement. The absence of functional relationships plays a significant role in fanning these negative flames – lack of mentoring, guiding, educating, encouraging, and the lack of effective parenting undermines functional relationships.
Crime activities, and violence is increasing among youths, even as early as age 9. At such ages moral conscience, values, and emotional regulation is not yet shaped or optimized. It is imperative that relationships that influence this mind-altering consciousness be present to shape more socially acceptable behaviors. Secondly, each day society becomes less emotionally connected. The lack of significant emotional connection creates a void that leads to the inability to be empathetic. Thirdly, the lack of emotional connectivity makes it easy to aggress or to act violently with no regard for the other person. The internalizing that one is denied what is rightfully his or hers often spurs feelings of injustice, anger, and acting out behaviors.
Not all crimes are violent, but usually all violent acts result in the commission of a crime. Violence involves force, and when someone wants what he or she feels they are entitled to or deserving of, then at times they’ll resort to taking these things forcefully. When there is no emotional connection then behaviors are engaged in without conscience. To change these violent and malfeasance behaviors the messaging needs to change; the guardians of the youths need to be vigilant with mentoring and stewardship, and we need to return to being more emotionally connected with each other. It takes a village to raise a child, and a community to build a society.